This week at Trinity, I was able to settle back into the old groove of helping my grandparent play bingo. She is blind, so she hands me the chips and I place them on the correct numbers. We are both very competitive about the game, and as numbers are called, I make sure to tell her how the board stands and what critical slots we need to fill. The bingo prizes consist of bags of cookies, floral t-shirts, and stuffed animals, and it is enough to induce an intensity across the cafeteria as chips are played and numbers called.

We all still talk and make quiet jokes to each other when our cards get so close to BINGO but fail. It is all right because (my grandparent included) elderly smiles are exchanged. Talk of the weather and a nice church service to look forward to keep minds light.
Someone prematurely yells “Bingo!” from down the hall, just to alert elderly glances of doubt and confusion but inevitably, evolving laughter, and I enjoy my position as the “chip placer,” helping my grandparent help herself to a game of luck and expectancy.
I tell her, “Aw man..we’re close. Just two more spots..,” and she smiles and says, “Good now.” Then someone yells, “Bingo!” not prematurely, and elderly glances look up with a hope at doubt and a joke, but seeing another eager, winning face in return is answer enough for the competition to end. It ends with me telling my grandparent, “Well that’s how it is. You win some. You lose some.” And she answers with, “Yes. But I do like to win.”